You should now let go of all love and romance and focus on becoming good friends like in the beginning.
You can also use this time for complimenting each other and also doing some fun things together. This will help you enjoy each others’ company.
The key to be attractive is to be the real you. You should relax and trust. Don’t scratch old wounds. Opening these old memories would only cause you pain and distress, nothing more. The key is to live the present to the fullest. Just enjoy the present.
You were attracted to him/her and hence got involved in a love relationship, but the value just got lost in the run. It is always helpful to spend some quality time together. If feasible go on a holiday. Eat in good restaurants or go out for a movie. You can also grab ice-creams and stroll together in a park. You should make an attempt to know each other again-like it is your first time. This may just be the way you started out in the first place, and fell in love. The idea is to evoke memories within you, and also make you understand that you do value each other’s company and that it can still work out. It’s most likely that the history will repeat itself.
Remember to take it steady and easy. You should refrain from talking about topics that you both may not consent on. You got to invent ways to re-learn, and create new and effective ways to communicate with each other. Counseling is also a good thing. It’s a misconception that counseling is only for problematic relationships or for someone with Psychological -disorders. Counseling is to find out the weak areas that demands attention, not to ruin a relationship.
Time and space are two most important aspects that create problems in a relationship. Either you had no time for each other or you felt that you needed some space. The main reason for this is that you had differences, but were unable to respect each others’ differences. It’s very crucial that you have common goals and head towards the same, and not opposite directions.
This can be applied in any relationship that needs to be rejuvenated. Well, it seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are normally the ones that are rooted in friendship.
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